23 Jun 2020
Vitamin S - Self Care
Written by Cathy Houghton, Founder, Blossom Health Coaching
As a Health Coach I work with women on a wide range of issues affecting their wellbeing, such as stress, poor food choices, inadequate sleep. There is, however, one theme that runs through all my clients’ sessions, that is what I like to call Vitamin S. And this is more important than ever as we emerge from lockdown into a changed world.
Taking time to pause, listen to our minds and bodies, and respond with what is needed, is at the heart of really taking good care of self-care.
Why are we so bad at this? Why do we give up so much time and control of our lives to external sources, and equate business with successfulness? Perhaps some of us are afraid of the times of calm and potential solitude after the work / project is done, ignoring our inner wisdoms and requirements? Life should ebb and flow naturally, and letting go of any resistance to this will make for a calmer ride.
A big part of self-care is finding balance in life, so that one part does not dominate the others. Is your life balanced? It doesn’t matter how many ‘superfoods’ you are eating if you are managing only 4 hours sleep a night (and feeling ragged on it). If working 60 hours + a week in a sedentary job, then perhaps your time for movement is diminished and your stress levels are way too high. Or maybe you are a people pleaser and some toxic friendships are ruling your spare time, leaving you resentful, and with no chance of doing what you want to do.
Self-care in life is a balancing act in another way too, needs versus wants. That tricky combination of doing the things we ‘need’ to do as conscientious responsible adults, pitted against the inner child that ‘wants’ things for pleasure and fun. There is a place for both. Getting this right, without struggle, leads to a smoother, more peaceful life.
Peace is a big word in the self-care world. Finding peace within is at the heart of my health coaching. For many women the lack of peace in their lives centres around food, weight, and body image. The struggle to lose weight may cause more damage overall than remaining at a bigger size, if it causes distress, unhappiness and feeling like a failure. Wherever women are on their journey with weight and size, trying to start from a place of acceptance, and eating for nourishment rather than for calories or points, is a good place to start.
Some areas of our life that may need a little help with self-care:
- Food patterns – do you know what your body thrives on? Or really objects to? Do you eat like you love yourself? Keep a daily diary for 1 week to map what you have eaten against how you feel, then review. It never fails to surprise. (contact me for my food and mood diary).
- Nutrition – are your eating patterns varied and balanced enough to be giving you all the nutrients you require? This is really hard in today’s society, most of us need a helping hand from supplements one way or another. Jacquie and her team at Nature’s Bounty are on hand to help us with us with this.
- Sleep – are you giving your body enough? One way to tell is to sit quietly in the afternoon for 10 minutes, if you can’t help but nod off then you probably aren’t getting enough sleep at night. Stand back and think about your bedtime and morning routines, what can you do to improve them?
- Downtime / rest / flow – being awake but switching off the brain from active thought. Being in the moment, calmly. Accepting whatever comes along. A walk in the woods works well for me, what about you?
- Movement – sounds so much better than ‘exercise’ doesn’t it. What does your body enjoy doing? How many different ways can you move for pleasure, not punishment? Forced exercise regimes are not self-care.
- Self-talk – how do you talk to yourself? Is that voice in your head critical or kind? Do you talk to yourself as if you were talking to a good friend – and if not, then why not? Becoming aware of the chatter in your head, changing this to become kindness and compassion, is probably the single most important to show yourself some love and self-care. Try it, just for one day, and watch what happens.
So, do you have enough Vitamin S in your life? Particularly now as we are emerging into a different world. Do you feel balanced, calm and at peace with the world? If not, where can you start to make some small easy changes? Perhaps this might help: -
Take a small empty glass jar. Place it somewhere visible in your home, like a desk or kitchen worktop. Everyday try to do 1 small thing for yourself, and each time you do put something in the jar like a marble, paperclip, button. It doesn’t matter what you fill the jar with, nor does it matter what you have done to earn it – a bath, listen to your favourite song, take a walk (for pleasure), ring an old friend, have reflexology, make your favourite cake ….. The point is to watch the jar fill up and when it gets near the top plan something really special, a treat for looking after yourself. By then hopefully the habit is ingrained enough, if not empty and start your Vitamin S jar again.
I hope some of these thoughts and ideas have resonated with you, please get in touch with me or Jacquie from Nature’s Bounty for more help and inspiration.
Cathy Houghton is the founder of Blossom Health Coaching, based in Newton Abbot. Cathy coaches women in health and wellbeing, individually and in group sessions. Coaching is currently taking place online during lockdown.
Happy Brain, Happy Body
HAPPY BRAIN, HAPPY BODY Though not as exact as...read more
Coconut Oil A-Z and Recipe Ideas
A to Z of Uses for Raw Organic Coconut...read more
Art Therapy and Counselling
We all have unique stories to tell, and once we...read more
French Paradox Secret Revealed
Resveratrol Reserve - Cellular Longevity Complex Resveratrol...read more
Comparing multivitamins can be tricky. This article asks, and answers,...read more
Vitamin S - Self Care
Written by Cathy Houghton, Founder, Blossom Health Coaching ...read more
Meet Our Team
PROPRIETOR AND REFLEXOLOGIST
My passion in natural healthcare swayed me to abandon my career in teaching, learning and development, taking over as Proprietor of Nature's Bounty back in 2010. It has been the most amazing and fulfilling journey where every day...Read more
CUSTOMER SERVICE ADVISER
I'm delighted to be continuing my journey into Health and Nutrition as member of the team at Nature's Bounty and bring my own set of skills and knowledge to compliment those of my colleagues. I'm...Read more
CUSTOMER SERVICE ADVISER AND INDEPENDENT PRACTITIONER
Hello Everyone! I am so excited to part of Nature’s Bounty’s team in beautiful Devon! I work part-time on the floor and I offer Art Therapy and Counselling in the therapy room. I have recently moved from South...Read more
CUSTOMER SERVICE ADVISER AND INDEPENDENT PRACTITIONER
I hold a BSc in Sports Science and have a wealth of experience working in Natural Health. I work on the shop floor at Nature's Bounty on a part-time basis and have my own private practice outside of...Read more
IRENE MELVILLE (Independent Practitioner)
A holistic treatment with an emphasis on blood type, nutrition treatment and osteopathy. I am a highly qualified Specialist earning an outstanding reputation among my professional peers from all corners of the globe. ...Read more
CAROL MARTIN (Independent Practitioner)
Welcome to my profile! I have over 17 years experience working in Complimentary Health. I see clients at Nature's Bounty for Reflexology, Footcare Health, Indian Head Massage, Aromatherapy Massage and Swedish Massage. ...Read more
CATHY HOUGHTON (Independent Practitioner)
Cathy Houghton is the founder of Blossom Health Coaching, based in Newton Abbot. Her aim is to help women on their journey to better health and wellness. For many women this involves finding peace with their bodies, their...Read more
JULIA SIMMONS (Independent Practitioner)
I am a Registered Counsellor with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. I have a background in art, dance, Social work (Adult Health Care) and massage. My personal life experience of loss and bereavement,...Read more
PHIL ALLEN (Independent Practitioner)
Over 25 years experience of workiing with clients . RN, BCH, CI. Clinical Hypnotism Thought Field Therapy Philip is a practising hypnotist, a Reiki/ Sekhem Master Teacher of over 25 years,...Read more
Nature's Bounty on Twitter
Our company has a Cylex profile! Check it out, follow us, write reviews. https://t.co/vU5kO5BMGE
Nature's Bounty Health Store on #Google https://t.co/EhuKexFchz
Natures Bounty https://t.co/LbngYtIqnT via @YouTube